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How to Tame your Ego

Your ego can either be your best friend or your worst enemy. People talk about killing the ego, but that isn't necessary. The correct way to go about this is to TAME the ego. A tamed ego hacks into your maturity & makes you feel powerful. You gain a sense of clarity that allows you to see life from a different angle. Want to learn how to tame your ego? Then this article is for you.

The Psychology of a Hater

A hater is abundant & a creator is scarce. Therefore, as you are rising up the ranks, you will continue to attract more & more haters. You need to understand how to respond to negativity rather than reacting to it. In this articile, I delve deep into the psychology of a hater. Once you are able to understand the psychology, it will be much easier to make chess moves. Find out how.

How Do Toastmasters Meetings Work?

Toastmasters is the number 1 public speaking club on the planet. But you may be wondering how do Toastmasters Meetings work? What exactly is it that makes the club so effective? In this article, I shed insight into the mysterious world so you can take a stab at conquering your speech anxiety. Let us enter the world of public speaking.

How To Deal With Rejection

Dealing with rejection is never easy. It stings when you give it your all and get burned for it anyways. But luckily, rejection is a good thing. It helps you understand how to be tougher & carry yourself with more poise in future interactions. Check out this podcast & level up you social IQ.

5 Ways to Rebuild your Life After Rock Bottom

Rock bottom is one of the toughest moments of your life. But luckily, rock bottom is one of the greatest things that can ever happen to you. It may not feel like it at the time, but when you rebuild your life after rock bottom, you have a badge of honor for life. Unfortunately, most neglect using it as a springboard for growth & happen to sink further into hell. Let's make sure you take the path less taken. Learn how to rebuild your life after rock bottom.

Improve your Nonverbal Communication

Verbal communication was taught & nonverbal communication is ingrained. It is important to understand that the body communicates more messages than we can possibly fathom. The words are the tip of the iceberg & the body IS the iceberg. If you are someone who is lost when it comes to nonverbal communication, then this article is for you! Learn how to become fluent with the body & join an exclusive club.

How I saw Sai overcome speech anxiety

In this post, I share a story about a boy named Sai. Sai was terrified of public speaking when he came to his first ever Toastmasters meeting. And he was even more terrified when he got called up on stage. That moment changed Sai's life forever. It was the beginning of a transformation that will be remembered for the rest of his existence. Find out how Sai overcame speech anxiety.

Podcasting Your Way To Confidence

Meditation does a great job in helping you build a connection to your breath. Podcasting does a great job in helping you build a connection with your voice. By combining the 2 in unison, you are able to feel like a 10x version of yourself. You become more confident & carry yourself with purpose. Learn the art of taming your voice.

The Importance of Storytelling

Storytelling is often put in a box. It is seen solely as entertainment. But no, that is a limiting belief. A story can entertain & inform at the same damn time! Let's shed your limiting belief about the story so you can begin seeing the importance. I will share how important storytelling is with a personal story regarding a high school event. Check it out & invest in this skillset today.

11 Common Communication Errors

Communication errors are what prevents a good person from becoming great. What's sad is that a lot of people who display common communication errors are completely unaware that they are even making them! This article share 11 communication errors that are very prevalent in today's society. By learning about these mistakes, you will be able to analyze which mistake you have been making so you can do something about it.

Become A Creator

In a world full of consumers, being a producer is like finding a diamond in the rough. A producer is a creator who is able to make something out of nothing. It requires a lot of creativity & persistence to get to this level. But it is doable. Learn how to level up your creativity & produce on a consistent basis.

The Creative Brain

You are born as an imaginative creature. But as you progress in life, creativity begins to melt away. Why is that? It's because of societal programming. Sad, but true. However, your creative brain can be unleashed once more. The process is not easy, but perfectly doable. Find out how the journey begins.

How to get a Social Life

Building a social life is crucial to gain access to more opportunities, fulfillment & growth. But what if you don't have a social cirlce or don't know how to form one? Then understand that it is not too late! You can always turn your world around & build a social life from scratch. Find out how in this post.

The 1 Minute Story

No one likes the person who rambles while telling a story. I'm sure you know a few people like that. Or worse! You are that person. In order to simplify your story to pack a punch, you need to clean up your speech. The best way to do that is thru the 1-minute story. Give it a try & skyrocket your engagement!

How to Have an Attractive Personality

Your personality is the remote controller of your life. It serves as the volume button, the channel switcher & the on/off button. It's just a matter of learning how to leverage the remote control. You can begin to gain full control by developing an attractive personality. A personality that has you brightening up peoples days and opening up a boat load of opportunities along the way. Find out how!

Building Your Digital Charisma

With the rise of the internet, building a digital presence is crucial. But don't just be someone who exists on the internet. Be someone who has an attractive personality. Inform others while displaying glowing charisma at the same time. The era of digital charisma is officially here. Make sure you understand how the concept works so you are able to make the most out of it!

The Power Of Silence In Public Speaking

In today's noisy world, silence tends to scare most of us. But in reality, silence is a tool that needs to be leveraged. Silence helps build more authority to your words & makes you a speaking maestro. In this podcast episode, I uncover 3 benefits of leveraging silence in your speech & why you should begin using it.

Building Small Talk Skills

Small talk gets a bad reputation because of the ambiguouty invovled with it. But what would you do if I told you there are frameworks wot learn this msyterious topic? You no longer have to wing it. You just need to have a lick of intellect & you are good to go? If this question intersts you then check out this blog post. I provide my definiotn of small talk, why you suck at it, why it's valuable & how to do it!

Acquaintance Vs A Friend

You often hear the myth that popularity is indicative of the number of friends that you have. That is incorrect. Popularity is based on the number of quality friends that you have. In this podcast episode, I uncover how to be able to distinguish between a friend & an acquaintance. You need both to build the perfect network. So learn how to distinguish the two!

What are Soft Skills?

What are soft skills? It is a term that sounds very ambiguous and up for debate. This post aims to uncover the mysterious world of soft skills & why it is not taken seriously be society today. Ironic, considering that soft skills will play a major role in your emotional, social & financial life. Make sure you are not leaving growth on the table by neglecting your soft skills.

How to Stop being a Loner

Being a loner and being lonely are not the same things. In this blog post, I explain the difference. But more importantly, I explain how you can fix being a loner. Due to the rise in technology, social media & comfort, loners are on the rise. But luckily, there is a formula to reverse the effects. Read the post & be social once again!

People Who Cut Others Off

Getting cut off in a conversation is not a good feeling. People who cut others off lack social awareness. Heck, you may fall into the same boat as well! In this episode, I tell you how to deal with people who cut others off so you are not making an enemy in the process.

Less Friends > More Friends

There is a common misconception that states that the more friends that you have, the more popular that you are. But that concept is outdated. Quality friends beats quanity friends any day of the week. In this blog post I share a story of the time I made this realization & how my life improved for the best. Find out how to architect your social circle with this post!

Cheat Code Your Public Speaking Progress

You can speed up your public speaking progress with the following cheat code. This cheat code will allow you to feel more confident on stage, more assured in your skin & melt away speech anxiety. A modern day hack that can be applied during your practice sessions & during the day of your speech. What is it? Read this blog post & find out.

Cheat Code to Storytelling

Storytelling is an artwork that has been utilized for centuries. Many people consume stories on the daily. But how many people take the time to produce it? The rare minority, unfortuantley. But that does not have to be the case. In this blog post, I share a cheat code that will help you learn the art of storytelling faster. Did I mention it will make you mentally tougher as well? Check it out!

The Truth About Unhealed Anger

Suppressing emotions make them go to the gym and come back 10x stronger. Your unhealed anger is pulling you into a downward spiral & you are not aware. Even though you can lie to your conscious mind, the subconscious mind knows. Heal the anger so you can remove the anchor from within. I share how to do that in this blog post.

Argument vs Discussion

Are you confusing an argument for a discussion or the other way around? If you are, then you are making a major social dynamics error. Confusing the two will have you burning bridges, plummeting likeability & making your life feel hectic. Let's avoid that by helping you discuss rather than argue.

Dealing with Public Speaking Anxiety

Public speaking anxiety is a tough feeling to deal with. But there are strategies to overcome this initial road bump in your public speaking journey. Overcoming the public speaking anxiety all begins in the mind. You have to find out the illusion that exists in your imagination before taking the necessary steps to overcome it. In this blog post, I teach you how to do that.

How to Discipline Yourself

Discipline allows you to take a big portion of control over your life. But there is a catch! You need to stick with discipline for the long run, not just when you feel like it. In this blog post, I teach you how to discipline yourself. Once you are able to discipline yourself, you will gain a deeper insight into the power of your mind.

The Power of Storytelling

In this episode, I share a story from high school about my chemistry teacher. My chemistry teacher had an amazing way of maximizing stories & give you a simple framework to do the same!

The Difference between Nice and Kind

Being kind is much different than being nice. Being nice will ruin your social dynamics experience & will have you being a people pleasing loser. In this post, I explain the difference between kind & nice so you can learn how to to make the transformation. Apply one major tip & take back control of your social life once again.

How Fiction Books Melt Social Anxiety

Creativity is often a word that is vilified by adults. But believe it or not, creativity is a modern-day superpower. In this episode, I share a story about a high school friend who shifted my paradigm regarding creativity & how it impacted my social life for the best.

Types of Toxic People

Toxicity will have you feeling drained and losing a sense of joy towards life. But the problem is that many people have a tough time distinguishing who is toxic or not. In this blog post I discuss the social energy, the types of toxic people out there & how you should dictate your next moves.

5 Tips to Control your Anger

Your anger can be your best friend or your worst enemy. Too often, we allow the emotion to destruct us rather than let it fuel us. The reason for this is due to our perception of the emotion. In this blog post, I offer 5 practical tips to help leverage the emotions to your favor. Learn how to control your perception today.

3 C's of storytelling

Storytelling is much easier when you have a basic framework to follow. And one of the most famous frameworks are the 3 c's of storytelling. In this post I highlight the 3 c's, the importance of each element & how you can use it to level up your storytelling today.

ArmaniTalks Podcast - Less is More for a Speech

Less is more is a mantra that you want to follow when building a speech. I share a story about a speaker who began off strong but fumbled along the way because of taking too many paths. Learn from their mistake so you can build a clean and efficient speech.

The Real Difference Between Introverts & Extroverts

Introverts & extroverts are commonly misunderstood by the general public. But there is 1 major difference that will help you be able to distinguish between the 2. In this post, I explain the main difference & drop in a 3rd personality type as well. Check it out.

ArmaniTalks Podcast - Why Unpredictability Is A Good Thing

The social dynamics world is very unpredictable. Why? Because humans are extremely unpredictable creatures. But is that a bad thing? Not quite. In many ways that is a great thing. I explain why unpredictability is a good thing in this podcast episode.

How to Design a Best Man Speech

The best man speech is a big moment for anyone's life. It is the perfect moment to make a good impression for your friend or sibling. But often nervous energy holds you back from seizing the moment. In this post, I give you 4 frameworks for engineering a memorable best man speech.


Are you someone who is struggling to produce content? That's because you may just be winging the production process. In this blog post, I share a crucial mindset switch & 4 practical tips to help you reach infinite content creation status.

ArmaniTalks Podcast - How to Deal with a Breakup

Dealing with a heartbreak is a tough feeling. But you can overcome it if you are willing to accept what happened. In this podcast I explain what it means to move on & offer 7 tips to get you thru this dark moment. For more exclusive emotional intelligence tips, sign up for my free daily newsletter:

Effective Methods to Journal

Having a journal is an effective way to gain clarity on life, build emotional intelligence & skyrocket your confidence. But where do you begin? How often should you do it? What are some frameworks to journal effectively? In this blog post, I give you all the answers!

ArmaniTalks Podcast - Curious vs. Combative People

There are 2 kinds of people in this world, curious and combative. Being able to distinguish between the two is key to avoid wasting your time. In this episode, I explain the differences between the two groups.

How to Stop Being a Quitter

Life is not favorable towards a quitter. Quitting is temporary satisfaction in exchange for longer time regret? Are you are quitter? If so, this blog post is for you. Take a read & find out how you can stop giving up so soon!

Why is Public Speaking Important?

Public speaking is the number 1 fear on the planet. But despite the fear this act generates, public speaking is more important than ever. If you aren't convinced that it is, read this blog post & reframe your mindset towards this superpower!

ArmaniTalks Podcast - Dangers Of The Mainstream Media

The mainstream media no longer spreads news that helps you level up your mind. Rather opinions are being disguised as news to get a reaction out of you. In this episode, I offer my unfiltered take on the mainstream media. Sit back & get ready for this truth bomb.

How To Get Over a Breakup

A breakup is one of the hardest moments in someone's life. Waving a permanent goodbye to someone you loved is never easy. But often necessary. Check out this blog post to learn what moves to make to move on to the next chapter.

ArmaniTalks Podcast - How to Avoid Analysis Paralysis

This podcast is regarding getting over analysis paralysis. I offer 3 practical tips that will stop you from sitting on your ass & making moves!

ArmaniTalks Podcast - Best Man Speech

The best man speech is a bittersweet moment in our lives. Bitter due to the nerves associated with it. Sweet because we were special enough to be chosen. Check out this podcast to get 4 practical tips to level up your best man speech.

What is the Definition of Gratitude?

Gratitude is one of the best ways to exercise your mind to your favor. Being grateful allows you to go from a scarcity mindset to one full of abundance. If you want to begin incorporating gratitude into your life, but don't know how, check out this post!

Developing Your Emotional Intelligence

You'd be amazed by how much of your reality is dictated by your emotions. With that being said, your emotions can either be your best friend or your worst enemy. In order to make them by your side, you need to level up your emotional intelligence. I share a 4 step framework to help you achieve that.

11 Ways to Level up your Self Confidence

Self-confidence is the ultimate cheat code to a more fulfilling & happy life. Read this post to incorporate 11 practical tips to instilling self-confidence into your life today!

How to Cure Loneliness

Loneliness is one of the toughest feelings to deal with. You feel a lack of joy, a heavy internal weight & racing thoughts. But what if I told you that loneliness could be cured? There are actionable steps that you can implement today. Want to learn how? Check out this blog post & escape the darkness!

19 Reasons why you aren’t leaving a toxic relationship

A toxic relationship is a love gone wrong. But if it is love gone wrong, then why do so many people stay? Why don't they just leave the toxic relationship? In this blog post I discuss 19 reasons as to why people refuse to leave.

The 27 Lessons

I break down 27 lessons that I learned from my 27th birthday from last year. In this piece I include lessons learned from dealing with loved ones, early deaths, finding a life purpose & much more! If you can relate the lessons discussed in the blog post feel free to give it a share!

Conor McGregor's Mindset

Conor Mcgregor is a brilliant fighter who has turned his life around. He went from a plumber to a UFC superstar in a matter of years. What was his secret? Check out the blog & find the secret weapon that led to his rise. Hint: His secret is something you can apply to your life as well!

Getting Over Social Anxiety

Social anxiety is the silent fear that plagues many of us in this world. But getting over social anxiety is absolutely possible. Check out this blog post to get a few practical tips on how to overcome your social anxiety & become more confident than ever.

How to give the Perfect Toastmasters Icebreaker Speech

This is an in-depth guide into dominating your first Toastmasters icebreaker speech. The icebreaker is the first speech in your Toastmasters journey. Read up on the practical tips to help you navigate the roadblocks & deliver a stellar icebreaker!

Social Intelligence

Were you ever taught how to be social? Or did you simply figure it out after being tossed into the social world? If you are like most people, you probably chose the latter. The plain reality is that most humans are not taught how to be social. This is baffling, considering we are social creatures by nature. There has to…

Emotional Intelligence

Are Human’s Biologically Logical or Emotional Creatures? If you do some research, you will learn that humans are emotional creatures. When dealing with people, let us remember we are not dealing with creatures of logic. We are dealing with creatures of emotion, creatures bristling with prejudices and motivated by pride and vanity. – Dale Carnegie This is a simple fact of…


Do you remember the old stories that you were told as a child? The stories that would teach you lessons while you thought you were simply being entertained? Well, those stories are back on the rise. Take an in-depth look into the wonderful world of storytelling.


Creativity is Often One of Those Words That Scares a lot of People Why? There are two reasons: 1. Creativity has gotten an unfair label as being for little kids. 2. Creativity is such an ambiguous concept that it is a very difficult to grasp. But what is very ironic about these reasons is that creativity is the exact reason…

Public Speaking

Do You Know What the Number One Fear on the Planet is? Two words: Public speaking. You heard that correctly. Public speaking is a bigger fear than death among humans. Isn’t that a crazy idea to digest? Speaking in front of others is more terrifying than death. Now the question is, why?